DexFriends

A full friends system, built for modern servers. Follow anyone — no request needed — and when they follow you back, you're friends. Teleports, DMs, payments, stats and per-player privacy, on native 1.21.6+ dialogs with a chest GUI for older clients and Bedrock.

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Privacy toggles

Folia

Supported

How friends work

Follow anyone/friend follow <player> — works for offline players, no permission needed. They get "started following you" with a [FOLLOW BACK] button.

Follow back = friendsTwo players following each other are friends. The list shows Friends, Following and Followers, with filters and search.

Friends unlock actionsBy default messages, pokes, location sharing and teleport requests need a mutual follow. Pay and stats only need you to follow them.

What you get

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Dialogs and chest GUI, same dataJava 1.21.6+ gets dialog screens; older clients and Bedrock get chest menus with the same buttons. Heads use each player's real skin — even offline and with SkinsRestorer.

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Teleports with EssentialsX supportTyped /tpa and /tpahere open a Confirm screen. With EssentialsX installed its own warmup, cooldown, /back and /tptoggle keep working; without it DexFriends teleports by itself.

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Pay & payment historyPreset amounts or type your own (1500, 2.5k, 1m), a Yes/No confirm, and a history per player. Needs Vault.

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Player statsMoney, kills, deaths and playtime on a stats card.

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Privacy that's actually enforcedSix toggles for everyone plus seven per player — who can message, teleport or pay you, auto-accept TPAs from someone, see their activity — all checked in code.

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Favourites, blocking & limitsStar people to pin them first, block players (removes follows both ways), and give ranks bigger limits with dexfriends.limit.<tier>.

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Anti-spam"Started following you" is sent at most once per follower every 5 minutes, so follow/unfollow loops can't spam anyone.

Requirements

Requirement	Version	Notes
Server	1.20+	Spigot, Paper, Purpur or Folia · Java 21
Dialog screens	1.21.6+ client	Everyone else gets the chest GUI automatically
Vault + economy	Optional	For Pay and the money line on stats
EssentialsX	Optional	Uses its `/tpa` system when installed
SkinsRestorer	Optional	Skins for players not seen since the update
PlaceholderAPI · ViaVersion · Floodgate	Optional	Placeholders, old-client and Bedrock detection

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Updating from 1.0.x? Every old friendship is kept as a mutual follow, and pending friend requests become follows.